For starters, college has taught me that life doesn't always go as planned.
I didn't graduate when I should have. I should have been done this past spring, but my diploma will read 2012. I've just been telling people that I love school that much.
Graduation day aside, when I DO receive my diploma in April, I will be a "sociologist". What's a sociologist? I will commit an academic sin and quote wikipedia:
"It is a social science—a term with which it is sometimes synonymous—which uses various methods of empirical investigation and critical analysis to develop and refine a body of knowledge about human social activity."Didn't get that? As a sociologist, half of it's blabber to me as well, so don't worry. Essentially, when I walk across the stage at convocation, I'll be a sociologist who is certified in observing people (aka: creepin'), conducting interviews (qualitative sociologists, holla!), surveying the masses (quantitative sociologists, I don't know how you can stand this stuff) and then some. I'll be educated, or something like that. A far cry from music school, no?
But ya know education-schmeducation aside, I've learned some other random, yet valuable, lessons:
Professors make mistakes.
You will forget to submit an assignment (and you will survive).
Class gets canceled every great once in a while.
Three jobs sometimes suck your spare time.
Somehow, you find time for extra curricular activities (like literally running yourself dead by participating in cross-country).
Sometimes you transfer to another school.
You don't receive the grade you thought you deserved.
Your major changes once or twice (or three, four and five times).
The doors I once was scared of are now familiar (I really hate the squeaky doors). That intimidating professor? Yeah, she's writing my letter of recommendation. The borderline psycho professor I swore I'd never see again? Um yeah, about that. She's my boss now. Those unfamiliar faces? We're friends. And today marks the beginning of the end of all that. I didn't expect to encounter any of it, but it happened and now it's going to end soon. And it's bittersweet. College wasn't so scary after all.
I'm so proud of you. :)
ReplyDeleteAlso it's good to read this kind of reflection when I'm about to start grad school, which seems pretty dang scary right now too. God willing, I'll look back in 5 years and be able to say that grad school wasn't that scary either.
Thanks for sharing, Kristen. I love the last paragraph. :)
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